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?!!! Do You Believe in Love At The First Sight
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wht do men notice at the first meeting
here is what i found on Yahoo, about the first meeting! and what do men specially notice _ Of course that is natural! _ at the first time that see women, hope you like that :) 1. Your hair Hair takes the top spot for a number of reasons. First, it's easy to spot. You may have a bottom to make Pippa Middleton weep with envy, but it's unlikely to be the thing men notice first about you unless you're holding a wedding dress train outside Westminster Abbey. Men don't just glance at a swooshy, shiny mane of hair and then move onto your other assets. They glance at it, and then keep on glancing. It's a potent symbol of femininity that screams out to be touched. It also shows that you look after yourself and take pride in your appearance - qualities that many men rate very highly indeed. That said, you don't want to look high-maintenance, so don't overdo the products or extreme styling. Just keep your hair clean and conditioned, and invest in a good cut that suits your hair and your features. 2. Your eyes If your hair is your face's frame, your eyes are its windows. Grown men can be hypnotised by a swoosh of beautiful hair followed by knockout eye contact. Eyes are so powerful because they are about direct communication, and eye contact enables you to make an instant connection with a stranger. Psychologist Arthur Arun tested the power of eye contact by dividing pairs of strangers into two groups. One group of pairs engaged in intense conversation, while the other pairs stared silently into each other's eyes for four minutes. Each time he did this test, the eye-contact couples reported feeling much more connected than the intimate-chat couple. One eye-contact couple even got married. So much for the power of conversation! 3. Your shoes Hair, eyes… shouldn't smile come next? Not according to the men we spoke to. When asked what they noticed first, men were surprisingly keen to mention the importance of stylish shoes. Particularly, and predictably, high heels. 4. Your Smile Smile at him, and that's when he really sees your face. He won't notice the slight crookedness of your teeth, or the chapped bit on your lip, or the spot that appeared this morning, or even if you've got a bit of food stuck in between your incisors - he'll notice the sincerity and friendliness of your smile. Of course i had to read the main text carefully, i organized it again and cleaned so many parts, what remains here is just information, not the education to adukts! just information. what do you think? |
my sisters . . . we do not live in a safe era, we should take care of ourselves |
love at first sight - english writings
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i don,t excuse you !:d how you can have mistakes but i can,t girls are always girls ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- miss mehregan honestly put fair in your judgment when our god creates us in couples that when we see each other we just feel diffrent how you can say that it belongs to student capacity don,t mention your self or the ones around you it,s a rule of Creation i see myself i am strange with the terms of my society i don,t want to be different but i am different not by choose it is simply understandable that guys like me who is not interested in the subject like love soo less cause i have bad experience about that and i have a personality that i don,t do the same mistake twice. what is the point of love it is just in stories and it is just in our imagination many people in this world when they were engaged or married they did n,t fall in love with each other it is just a Necessity of living in this world you can live alone but you need some one to be with . that s it . absolutely love is a lie that made by our imagination to be a Justification for our needs. that,s it . love in first sight or subject likes that is just another boring Description of our hopes and our imaginative things. rich is always rich beauty is always beauty some thing in our life is changeable but i am damn sure that love is a lie it is not exist and mentally it is Illness. like the time that you feel crazy and you want to do crazy thing being logical is better than being high on emotion emotion looks like a Mirage that when you follow it after a while you just understand that your life is ruined by it love in first side is not love it is Mania . tell me how you can understand the personality of the others in the first side we all reads this stuff in the stories but do you see it in the real world ? is it really true that we say someone just interested in personality of another guy in first sight ?of course not in first sight we just see our faces our body our gestures and our language and often we just Pretend on our first sight soooooooooooooo for result love at first sight is just a lie and this is my opinion |
Intresting topic sis tnx A. Mammad gian what is that suppoed mean girl are always girls? is it like guys are nor always guys or something Come on man! How many times do I have to talk about my Truck seriously {داش مشتی}:d But more importantly , B.which happens to be my contribution to the topic and here it goes Dear mehregan no one respecting the concept of love feels it at the first sight BUT the first time you meet the person, you have this wierd feeling in your stomach, something you have never felt before, it kinda feels like begining of something special {پپوله}!you look in the person's eyes and your heart smiles and no matter how it goes, you remember that smile for ever. any time you look back you are like"Who would've thought that that look will lead to this?"That smile is wiht 4ever That's what i think Something as huge as love, needs its time to grow but the root of the beautiful tree of love penetrates your heart at the first sight You may feel like you like some one and by extention feel the root going down your heart, but if that feeling is not love and is only a crush, then that root will never grow so, something roots up in your heart and by the time, if it is your true feeling, if the person is the right one, that root will stronger at minute (har daghighe ghavitar mishe) And as an answer to you dear Mammd, all kind of creatures finally end up living with one of their own kind, but what makes us different than them, is the LOVE domenating the life It's like a glue that in the hurricanes of life, still sticks families back together Love is not a lie, is just the one thing, the one feeling actually worth being felt and without it, life goes gray |
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hi buddies :this topic reminded me this famous quote !love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else bernard shaw |
?Well CAN-YOU-BELIEVE-THAT look who's back!Long time no seen Aria ?Why does every one have such dark remarks on love |
;) (!yes long time no seen but new guys have come and my absence hadn't been felt! (jam khali nabude ?why do u think every one has dark remark maybe the reality of love is it and people make it highlighted to satisfy themselves and to find sth super natural to prove their partners (husband, wife, bf, gf) right that they like him/her more than usual ofcourse to love and to be loved is an inevitable sensation but note that the one with whom you're in love is one like others however you love him/her !consequently i think bernard shaw has said kinda right . . {شیت شدن}{جشن پتو}:53: ;) !!oh! i forgot to congratulate victory of PERSPOLIS |
god bless bernard shaw :d miss saba joone mamad let it away love is good. ok :d now i see an upgrade from neissan to truck nice try. ppppppppppppppppooooooooooooooooooooooooooooofffffffffffffff ffffffff booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooorrrrrrrrrriiiiiiiiing no body comes . no body say any thing |
talking about Love at the first sight
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girls are always girls means that they are emotional when their judgment is based on emotion not logic. i mean this by that no i get you with no doubt when i say that this is a rule of creation it means that always most people act look like they suppose to act i mean physical react you know what am i mean you say it depends on student capacity to teach them a lesson here it is : " but the teacher didn't teach it! why? no one knows :d but i know! because of some reasons related to the capacity of students" your sentence maybe the problem is belong to the teacher and the teacher had not enough capacity to teach them beside i don,t blame you what do you got from my sentence |
!Oh Boys Are Always boys Fool of passion and you think you got it all and you know it all Once agian: you've got a keen tounge when talking about girls Emotions Are what turn us into angles this ugly world so badly needs I don't need to make u believe me, I don't believe in love at first sight, All i said was that, that first look is the most memoriable one You know what: people look at love based on their experience of it, they talk as their taste pushes them and that is sad Cuz you know what: I thought that you can call a boy a MAN only if they have the guts to still see the light even if the world is dark And Aria I'm frankly disapponted in a friend like you Love can't be concluded based on physic laws Faith is defined as a love that comes after knowledge that's about God, but good things are good ayway I love love and the shiney cool lifeful breathe it blows through one's life |
girls are Not !! always girls
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..Well... The Rule Of Girl's Creation Cause They Seem Emotional & Illogical Persons, But But But I Know Many Girls Around Me Completely Different With What You Think . Come On Girls.. It Seems Some Boys Like Mohammad Are Not Familiar With The Other Kind Of Girls At All ...Hey Mohammad!! Maybe You Should Visit More Different Girls In Your Life.. Hummm ? Try It |
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?thank you! but how can u speak such confident about love ?have u ever exprienced love ??if not how do u know what real love is as Dr shariati has said TO LIKE IS BETTER THAN TO LOVE i think we ourselves have given this illusory sacrosanctity to love |
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:d What An Interesting Sentence Saba. I Love Love نقل قول:
Completely Agree With You & Dr Shari'ati |
;) !nice to see u again mommy ghazal after too many months!! and tnx for accompaniment |
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i think my experience is enough to understand that girls are always have a bit kind of emotion that makes them not to think logically if you are the best guy in the world and some one just say some thing bad about you it Influence on girl and her judgment maybe i am not the right guy but when it happens to many other people around me ............makes me to believe that i am not alone you say they are not the same but you are a girl too you want to say you don,t have emotion! or some times your not high on emotion |
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? O o .. Long Time No See Dear Son.... By The Way I AM Ghazal With Capital G. Ok : ) It Was Just My Idea,Not Accompaniment.Try To Be Self-defensive Little Aria |
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i think your describe about emotion and turning girls to the angles needs some change who are we? devils? you think boys don,t have emotion of course they are . every human being have emotion but we control it .most girls can,t control their emotion don,t see your self and your friends around you see the wide screen that includes every girls who live in this world and be sure that world needs us too. |
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.If You Saw Some Thing Different Around You,It's Not The Reason To Say It Definitely Like This It's Not An Absolute |
No one said guys are evils if they are evils then what the hell is the value if us not being evils There are bad girls and good girls just like there are bad guys and good guys I'm not stupid enough to think that life is just some fairytale story cuz it's not Girls are usually described as angles cuz they are beautiful and emotional I didn't think i'll ever have to expalin that If something goes wrong a girl can make guys feel better about it by describing her feeling an that is easier for girls and that's why it's usually our duty in the nature and in our relations I hope i have made my point now I honestly dont know how you thought i am stupid enough to think all the girls are good and all the guys are bad And Mammd for God's sake stop judging us while you are not a girl to know exactly how we feel just like we dont judge you either Just give us your opinions and we will appreciate it And Aria buddy sorry if i offended you, i just thought that you would look a little more beautifully We all need somehting beautiful, a beautiful feeling to hold on to Maybe you are right and not all of people are allowed to have opinion onit I just think that we should all still try to see the light |
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i don,t think you are stupid or some thin i just have a deep Wound from love and my wound is not Treatable some times when i am talking about girls it just remind me my past and that,s makes me uncontrollable some times i am rude i know some times i am rude excuse me miss saba if i make you sad it is just not what just i want every member of this forum knows my behavior some times i just say some thing foolish that makes everyone angry and sad and this is the time that amirabbas comes and makes me to follow the rules. how can we say it . its my behavior i can,t change sorry all you guys if i make you sad or unhappy |
OK! I'm not a big fan of DRAMA I'm not sad Mammad joon We are frineds, Your behaviour is actually kinda familiar to me Controlling feelings when you so badly wanna talk about them is always difficult I bet none of us has a good LOVE EXPRIENCE, and i probably should end this conversation and not say any thing about it any more but as a friendly suggestion i want to sahre how i think of it(I mean the not-good exprience): I think that anyone hurt by this kind of expriences, has a human to blaim not their feeling of love love is a feeling, and feelings don't make mistakes, but we are human, we are the one who can abuse feelings and those bad love expriences happen when one side abuses love and turns it into suffer So the hurt people should blaim it on the one who ha hurt them and not on the feeling ?Ever thought of it that way And it would also be ideally beatiful if we could forgive the one whose fault this is And ideally it wont feel that bad anymore We are frinds and sometimes our discussion go to the wrong end but the thing is we can fix it by trying to accept each other :53:So sorry if i made u feel bad نقل قول:
Ok! skipping the first three lines(!) Dr Shariati's qoute is to be qouted in Farsi, cuz it actually means that "Doost dashtan behtar az Eshgh ast"And i totally agree It is because he and also me, believe that DOOST DASHTAN is cleaner and stornger and i couldn't agree more But in English the difference between like and love respectedly is the difference between the way you feel for footbalh and the way you feel for your loved ones You like football but you love people their point of view is defferent than ours ?is that clear now God! Aria you are a musicion! Track down the feelings نقل قول:
OK! the combonation of mother and son is even more dangerous then the combonations that cause explosions :d |
englsih conversations about love at first sight - feelings
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:lemme tell u the complete quote "Oh lord! teach everybody you like that "LOVE" is better than "LIFE" and Let taste everybody you like more, that "LIKE" is better than "LOVE !khodaya be har ke dust midariash biamuz ke eshgh az zendegi kardan behtar ast va be har ke dust tar midariash becheshan ke dust dashtan bartar ast az eshgh as i heard there's kinda egocentricity in LOVE that never exists in LIKE (also consider that LOVE can change into HATE in a moment whereas LIKE takes long time to change into hate (ofcourse if it is supposed to change, it usually turns into DISLIKE not into HATE some of my friends that are in love with Dr shariati!! and have read all of his books say that he wanna talk about the LOVE that we all know not anything special so i think u r wrong !and as a conclusion you can call it love like adore fondness dote .... but the only thing important is that we love/like/adore ..... each other |
Thanks for pointing it out Aria But when i talk about the term "LOVE" in English, I'm thinking of "Doost Dashtan" and not ESHGH So I think we are on the same page Every body believes that Doost Dashtan is Better:Smooth, Long lasting and strong ?But Why do is sense anger in your tone ?Are u mad at me i get a feeling like you feel like you are trying to make a naieve not exprienced person to FOr GOD's SAKE understand what u say Dont worry !Remember?I've never been good at expressing me I just wanted u 2 know that by the English word LOVE, I mean the farsi translation DOOST DASHTAN I seriously hope i have made my oint this time And dear mehregan the difference between LIKE and LOVE is the way each one leaves its track in your life and makes you feel !Their taste |
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;) hmm somebody translate the first line for me! kidding i just asked some questions and there wasn't any anger in my post but now that i reread my post i think it was better to use some smilies to reduce its seriousness and not to misunderstand u :53: sorry for that |
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! The first line has only one extra letter:s you have done this one more time remember?Being busy all day finding something out while you could've just taken it as a little spelling mistake ;) {قاط}And by the way i wont forgive you for scaring me out _:2:I actually kinda felt that you were yelling :p:21::d:d:d?Did i creep u out enough now |
A psychological approach to Love at the first sight
adapted from: 2knowmyselfWritten by M.Farouk Radwan, MSc. |
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